This image of love that we thrive for...
Does it really exist?
People need to not back track to a relationship that was no good for them. This post has two people in need. If you felt you were being mistreated... Maybe you weren't wrong for feeling that way. We go into these situations on blinded faith.
I know people that fell victims to losing themselves in another person. They would compromise their schedules to make their partner happy. They attach themselves at the hip for so long, that they've cut out their social life to be with them.
When you break up, its time to get that piece of yourself back that you lost during the relationship. Do things that please you and make you happier. So time passes and they are doing so well. Socializing more, experiencing new things. Then claims of a "changed" person has them running back into the same situation, blindly wishing and hoping things will change. Because you were secretly hoping they will come back to your life and make you "whole" again.
I believe if the signs are pointing to failure... Don't do it. Especially if you're scars are still open. You need time to heal, so if you choose to date the same person or anyone else... You will go into the situation with a level headed and live more for yourself.
My advice to people currently in relationships: Have a social life outside of your partner... Believe me! I've been there... And now getting myself back and it feels good!
Millah out!
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