This one is for the Gents (sorry Ladies)

Gentlemen... Is all I can say. You men come in all shapes and sizes. Some of you may not always have the words to express your true feeling, so instead you show us women.

A real man.... Once again the definition others have for it now isn't quite what I have in mind. My definition of a real man is a gentleman that sticks by his lady, supports her (emotionally,mentally, physically). When times get difficult he isn't a man that strays away from responsibility. The kind of man you count on for kind words and a strong hug when you need one.

I do not believe A "Real Man" can only be defined by his material possessions. Sorry folks! No goody bags being handed out for that. It annoys me that so many people are bedazzled at the fact that a man has a car or his own place.

Material possessions are fine gentlemen. As long as that's not your only way to attract. Broad shoulders, smooth skin, beautiful smile, great conversation. You are the other half to the puzzle, which makes the circle of life complete. Without a man there will be no women and without women there will be no men. We need eachother to build nations, to build families, to sustain life.

The values of a man has become fuzzy due to what they portray you as in society. Some men today are not living up to their fullest potential. Some men disrespect their people and especially their women. All I want to say is I love your masculinity, how proud you stand. Just know the troubles you men face everyday, is not all in vain. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

So men stand tall, proud, speak with authority, and help us women rebuild the nation. The way it truly was intended to be.

I know I said this one was going to be made awhile ago, but I needed to give it the proper words to show my appreciation for you.

I love y'all
Millah Out

Old Habits Die Hard

Happy Thursday folks! This work week is almost over! Thank goodness. I've been zombied out this whole week thus far.

So lately I've been satisfying my fix for mental stimulation and really awesome conversation with someone. This person is definitely a pleasant surprise since last week. I find it very interesting that I feel as if I've known this person longer. This is type of person you would hope to grow with someday.

So we were hanging out last night for an hour or so. My actions when we greeted each other is why I'm posting a blog now lol. So when we hugged each other, was a lot of "togetherness" in a way. Nothing happened physically at all, but it could've easily been one of those I Miss You kind of hugs. So I cut the hug short.

You must be thinking... Why break off a good hug, right? Well, the answer is quite simple. I am a young woman that has certain issues with showing affection at time, especially if I feel it's too early to feel that way.

When it comes to feeling emotions, logic gets fuzzy or is too strict on the rules of choices. I'm more of the logics girl. I would prefer not to deal with emotions, but that's not possible. So I'm going to start tapping into my more emotional side and acknowledging it does exist and needs to be understood.

Until next time folks
Millah Out!

It's Monday!!!

Hey everybody, I hope all is well and you folks are enjoying your Monday so far. I for one had a pretty chilled weekend. Just relaxing and taking out time for myself. I touched up on my braids, painted my nails, made some body products, had a business meeting. Overall a pretty productive weekend.

The kids are having naptime right now, so I have a little downtime. These kids today are bugging out a bit. Then at 2pm off to Kumon. Sometimes this double shift thing tires me out physically and mentally. I have to keep a goal in mind and believe it will happen.

Things have been morphing in my life once more. New people in and some out, but it all happens for a reason. I'm beginning to not sweat the small things that were only meant for a season.

Until next time folks!
Millah Out!