It is not Your job...

Hello folks! I hope all is well with you ladies and gents. I am currently enjoying my free afternoon, just relaxing. I just had a mini issue, which has inspired me to blog about it.

It is not Your job to make anyone around you feel comfortable. It seems throughout my entire life, I was always told not to say certain things or do certain things. I was always told what is and isnt appropriate to such an extent that I reinvented myself into a person that blended in. The real truth is even then I always seemed to have stood out. Almost to the point of embarrassment. I was always talked about, laughed at, or whatever.

So even then I wasn't fooling anyone, I was always a tad bit different. I now stopped the blending in that I once used as a defense mechanism. I tell a little of my story, to let people know Be Yourself. You don't have to change yourself unless you feel it's time to do so. It isn't your job to make others accept you. Half of the time people are not comfortable with themselves, so they tend to project these feelings into another person.

When you are truly yourself, people that are meant to be in your life will accept you for who you are. So don't alter yourself just so others can be comfortable.

Until next time folks!
Millah Out

All About You

Hello folks! I pray all is well with you all. Things lately for me have been flowing, there's no better way to describe it. Although, my sleeping schedule can do better... Was cleaning out my closet and I found my prom dress and graduation dress from 8th grade! I can even still fit them smh! I didn't grow much I guess.

Now back to the title at hand! When is the last you can recall just being alone? Not many phone calls, just quietness, you just being? If you cannot remember, then some You time is well overdue! I was generally to myself yesterday and it didn't feel weird. It took awhile for me to get to a state where I'm good with just me being alone.

So today's blog is dedicated to spending time with yourself. You never know what surprises are in store. Especially when you've accepted yourself.

Until next time folks
Millah Out!