Hello people! I am currently at work, sitting at the computer doing absolutely nothing! Now that it is summer time and many children went on vacation, business is slow.
I am not complaining though! I have a bunch on my mind so, I not in the best of moods. The first reason is that my gums are aching because they are healing so I feel the annoying pain of that. The second and main reason for me feeling down, is my confidence.
Lately, I've just been having many feelings of self doubt when it comes to everything that I do. Everytime I think of doing something productive my personal demons will start up. As they begin to flood my mind with self doubt and feelings of inadequacy. As the time on the clock passes my drive does to. My drive to anything productive is ruined at that moment, which in turn will hinder my progress for success.
My point of telling this story is to let you know, that the feelings of self doubt shall pass. Even though you may not want to do it, you should still press on and finish the task at hand. There are so many unfinished projects, just because of having a lack of self confidence. We may never know where it will lead us.
The thing that keeps me going, in the midst of all the negativity is: like most things this bad feeling shall pass as well.
Until next time folks!
Millah Out!
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
What does it really take?
Hello Peoples! Happy Wednesday... or what's left of it. I want to get on a consistent schedule as far as blogging goes.
So, I had a soul searching conversation with two lovely ladies in my life last night, when it comes to relationships. One of them are in a situation that many of us can relate to, the "go with the flow" kind of thing... *Sighs*
I have a problem with this as a whole. As time progresses in this situation, eventually someone's feelings will progress as well. This action will cause them to want more out of it.
Where the issue begins to form is if the other party does not feel the same way. It becomes a problem when one cares more than the other because the one that does not feel that way has the power. In many cases that power will be abused, using it to keep the other around for their own selfish reasons. Sadly, there are many women and men out their that are still in a "go with the flow" secretly hoping that it will turn into more, even though many of them won't get it.
I was asked last night. How to get your power back when in a situation like that? My answer is simply to: Put yourself first.
When in any form of companionship, you pay less attention to yourself. If you're not careful, you will become consumed. You won't consider your wants, needs, or responsibilities as much as you need to. The ultimate key to gaining your power back is to do more for yourself. Take the necessary steps to improving on the quality of your life.
I believe once your get yourself together... Everything will fall into place as it should. How could you offer anyone, a stable relationship if the relationship with yourself isn't where it should be? Think about it.
So the point of this blog is to take care of yourself. Get back your power by putting yourself first. Give yourself the love, time and effort you deserve.
Until next time folks!
Millah Out!
So, I had a soul searching conversation with two lovely ladies in my life last night, when it comes to relationships. One of them are in a situation that many of us can relate to, the "go with the flow" kind of thing... *Sighs*
I have a problem with this as a whole. As time progresses in this situation, eventually someone's feelings will progress as well. This action will cause them to want more out of it.
Where the issue begins to form is if the other party does not feel the same way. It becomes a problem when one cares more than the other because the one that does not feel that way has the power. In many cases that power will be abused, using it to keep the other around for their own selfish reasons. Sadly, there are many women and men out their that are still in a "go with the flow" secretly hoping that it will turn into more, even though many of them won't get it.
I was asked last night. How to get your power back when in a situation like that? My answer is simply to: Put yourself first.
When in any form of companionship, you pay less attention to yourself. If you're not careful, you will become consumed. You won't consider your wants, needs, or responsibilities as much as you need to. The ultimate key to gaining your power back is to do more for yourself. Take the necessary steps to improving on the quality of your life.
I believe once your get yourself together... Everything will fall into place as it should. How could you offer anyone, a stable relationship if the relationship with yourself isn't where it should be? Think about it.
So the point of this blog is to take care of yourself. Get back your power by putting yourself first. Give yourself the love, time and effort you deserve.
Until next time folks!
Millah Out!
Saturday, June 18, 2011
No One's Perfect
The widsom teeth saga is over! I got the other side of my face done. No more headaches from the pressure of pushing teeth!
It feels good that I have done that for myself. This is good, I have made a step in progression. I am one that often forgets do little things for myself. This time my health was being compromised, I needed to take matters into my own hands.
Enough of random talk, getting down to the point now!
People have been irking my nerves a little bit. Lol I read this article online and it says that people are easily annoyed when there is a lack of understanding for the other person's behavior.
I need to work on being more understanding of other people and myself. The key to anything is patience. So I need to patiently work on my character flaws and know this road is not an easy one.
I believe everyone can be a better version of themselves.
So the moral of the story is: Know your character flaws and do something about it. So before you decide to point out someone else's faults, remember that you're not perfect either.
Until next folks!
Millah Out!
It feels good that I have done that for myself. This is good, I have made a step in progression. I am one that often forgets do little things for myself. This time my health was being compromised, I needed to take matters into my own hands.
Enough of random talk, getting down to the point now!
People have been irking my nerves a little bit. Lol I read this article online and it says that people are easily annoyed when there is a lack of understanding for the other person's behavior.
I need to work on being more understanding of other people and myself. The key to anything is patience. So I need to patiently work on my character flaws and know this road is not an easy one.
I believe everyone can be a better version of themselves.
So the moral of the story is: Know your character flaws and do something about it. So before you decide to point out someone else's faults, remember that you're not perfect either.
Until next folks!
Millah Out!
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