What does it really take?

Hello Peoples! Happy Wednesday... or what's left of it. I want to get on a consistent schedule as far as blogging goes.

So, I had a soul searching conversation with two lovely ladies in my life last night, when it comes to relationships. One of them are in a situation that many of us can relate to, the "go with the flow" kind of thing... *Sighs*

I have a problem with this as a whole. As time progresses in this situation, eventually someone's feelings will progress as well. This action will cause them to want more out of it.

Where the issue begins to form is if the other party does not feel the same way. It becomes a problem when one cares more than the other because the one that does not feel that way has the power. In many cases that power will be abused, using it to keep the other around for their own selfish reasons. Sadly, there are many women and men out their that are still in a "go with the flow" secretly hoping that it will turn into more, even though many of them won't get it.

I was asked last night. How to get your power back when in a situation like that? My answer is simply to: Put yourself first.

When in any form of companionship, you pay less attention to yourself. If you're not careful, you will become consumed. You won't consider your wants, needs, or responsibilities as much as you need to. The ultimate key to gaining your power back is to do more for yourself. Take the necessary steps to improving on the quality of your life.

I believe once your get yourself together... Everything will fall into place as it should. How could you offer anyone, a stable relationship if the relationship with yourself isn't where it should be? Think about it.

So the point of this blog is to take care of yourself. Get back your power by putting yourself first. Give yourself the love, time and effort you deserve.

Until next time folks!
Millah Out!